NANA SAYS SEPARATION ANXIETY

Can occur at various ages with children. We see it in babies- look for their mother if she is the main caregiver. It is healthy as it demonstrates a healthy emotional bond has been made. The preschool child often regresses and may become "sucky" as my daughter sometimes describes her son lately. It can be connected to a major change in the child's life. Before the child moves forward, regression occurs. Older children can have the same feelings. First time away at sleepover camp. Even the first sleepover at a friend's house can bring these feelings. If older children are away for a long stay, we call it "homesick". Healthy normal feelings. Be supportive! Reassure the child! I have always used the pictures of my children to show the grandchildren if they are having an off day at my house. " Mommy will be here soon!" " Daddy is coming!" An older child may not want to admit they miss their parents. Setting a check-in, such as a phone call time regularly may help to provide some stability during an absence. Parents also feel an emptiness when children are elsewhere. So be in tune with your own feelings! How do you handle your child's separation anxiety? Have you had an absence from your child? Not great feelings- but what reassures you?