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Inspiration for this blog came from my cousin Roy. His daily reflections of the events in his life have been thoughtful and interesting. Family, friends, colleagues are welcome to read my blog.



Thursday, March 19, 2026

SPRING AROUND THE CORNER BUT LET'S HOPE FOR A RESOLTION OF THE WAR

 I want to be positive but my heart is breaking for the world.

Mostly for the children. I worry about my grandchildren. I worry about all the children of the world.

Especially the ones in the war zones. 




Darkest before the dawn.



So we stay hopeful for a better day.

And for the snow to go away.

#hopeforabetterday#springaroundthecorner#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro

Tuesday, March 17, 2026

MARCH-IN LIKE A LION-BUT IN THE HOME STRETCH OF END OF WINTER WEATHER

 Okay. March 1 is very cold.

So in like a lion goes the saying.

Hopefully it goes out like a lamb.

So much to do in March.

Birthdays to be remembered.

Well the weather has been warm. Then another snowfall and lots of shoveling and cleaning the car.

Then the snow melts.

Then it snows again.

Oh well it is St. Patrick's Day. So maybe with the luck of the Irish it will stay warmer.

#stpatrick'sday#warnthencoldthenwarmagain#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro


Monday, March 16, 2026

MARCH WITH SPRING AROUND THE CORNER-ALWAYS NEW BEGINNINGS

 March is the month of change.

Warm then cold then warm again.

But I always see it as new beginnings.

Clean the house.

Prepare for Easter/

Decide on what needs to be done next.

Get organizing and ready for the next steps in my life.

#reflectivethoughsbybara#barbaradimambro#marchthemonthofnewbeginnings

WAR IN IRAN PLAYS AT MY SOUL AS A CANADIAN-I WORRY ABOUT THE CHILDREN THERE AND EVERYWHERE

 I understand we do not want nuclear war.

But the war on Iran by the United States and Israel is wrong. It is trying to drag the world into the conflict.

Not a defensive but a preemptive strike. 

We need to support Ukraine and have that war settled with peaceful and doable resolution for the Ukrainian people. Sudan needs support. I care about their children.

We have our issues and need to improve the lives of all Canadians.

I support the Canadian stand that we will not be dragged into an American conflict.

I support our stand to do what is right for the Canadian people.

We must support our workers. We must stand up against violence of all kinds.

We must get clean water for all.

We want Alberta to be a part of Canada, always. 

We want Quebec to be a part of Canada, always.

Finding new trading partners. Distancing from the United States reliance for trade and our economy.

Staying connected as they are our neighbours but knowing the trust is gone.

Allowing differences of opinions. Allowing differing political views but not at the cost of hurting anyone.

As was seen with Tumbler Ridge all political leaders showed up for the community there.

We already have a trade war with the United States. We did not ask for that war.

We support Mexico. We support Cuba. We respect their sovereignty.

We do not have a malignant Administration to try to dictate to the world. Why should less than 5% of the world's population try to control the other 95%?

I needed to state my mind today. I need to stand up for the children of the world.

What are your thoughts on the world's conflicts right now?

#IdonotagreewiththeIranAmericanIsraeliwar#protectallachildren#canadaneedstotakecareofallcanadians#Alberta#Quebec#didnotaskforthetradewar#protectingcanada#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barabaradimambeo


IF THAT INJURY ON MATTHEWS HAPPENED ON THE STREET IT WOULD HAVE BEEN AN ASSUALT CHARGE

 I have embraced more hockey in the last few years because I have grandsons who play the game.

The deliberate hit on Auston Matthews that gave him a substantial injury was just mean.

If it happened on the street to me, the police would have charged the assailant.

In hockey, it is just a 5 game suspension.

The same player also took out Crosby during the Olympic game.

Taking out star players with such force is not okay. Condoning violence should not be part of the hockey world.

Checking and allowable defense is part of the hockey world. Learning such actions is part of the hockey player's world. I get that. I see it in the younger crowd. That thump on the boards keeps us awake. 

But wanting to injure healthy players is just violence. Let's not call it clean playing.

To see Auston who is such a great player having to heal is wrong.

Always a Leaf fan. But also caring about clean hits and following some other star players to stay well.

As a retired health care worker, caring about the health and well being of people is part of my blood.

So an injure Matthews hurts my soul. He deserves health and well being.

I do hope his knee heals as well as it can. I do hope the medical team around him do a great job. Like I always hope the health care teams around everyone who needs care gets it.

So what do you think. Is it assault? Or is it just hockey?

#austonmatthews#kneeinjury#assaultorjusthockety#checkinginhockeyokay#learningtoplaycleanly#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro


Sunday, March 8, 2026

IF YOU CAN'T SAY SOMETHING NICE, THEN SAY NOTHING AT ALL

 How many times have you been tempted to retort sarcastically or say something mean then you stop yourself?

It is not a bad thing.

It just makes the world a better place. Changing harsh words with less harsh words helps.

I find not responding to the negativity on Social Media is good. If I don't like something, I just write BOT? I do think so many of the long winded comments are BOTS or TROLLS so why respond.

Making compliments. Be courteous. Listen before reacting.

Making the world a better place starts with being better.

Not to be a pushover or a wimp or afraid is not what I am saying.

But not being one of the bad guys or gals is what I am saying.

Also- limit how much socializing is needed in your life.

If I am not around negative people then I do not need to respond.

How about you? Any thoughts?

#saysomethingniceornotatall#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro

Wednesday, March 4, 2026

NANA SAYS ATTENDING SPORTS EVENTS ARE SO MUCH FUN-GRANDSONS' HGH SCHOOL HOCKEY FINALS

 Okay being at a arena with High School students rooting for their team was so much fun.

Aurora High School had a first final game at the ACC-Aurora Community Centre March 3, 2026 against the team from Keswick.

The crowd of students with horns and loud cheers would stand behind the goalie to distract him. When they changed ends, the whole crowd would go to the opposite end to continue.



It was fun to sit and watch the game. More fun to see young people cheering and just having fun.
#grandsonsplayhockeyfortheirschool#aurorahighschool#youngpeoplecheeringfortheirteam#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro