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Inspiration for this blog came from my cousin Roy. His daily reflections of the events in his life have been thoughtful and interesting. Family, friends, colleagues are welcome to read my blog.



Tuesday, December 27, 2016

THERE MAY BE TWO SIDES TO A STORY BUT ONE MAY BE RIGHT

In any conflict, some people will say there are two sides to the story. Yes there are always versions of the story. But remember some people are born liars and can make anyone look bad even when they know they are wrong. Know the people in a story. Listen for flaws and conflicting stories from the same person. Honest people do not need to remember what they told you. Liars do. Honest people do not try to con others. Psychopaths or sociopaths do. If you are honest and your truth was questioned by anyone believing the other person, then it definitely time to dump that person. Remember there are audiences that love a good drama and conflict. Oh the glory of gossip! Some people thrive on gossip! Try not to entertain others with your truth. If asked about something personal that you do not wish to share then simply do not share. If you have disowned someone, there is no real need to explain to anyone about it nor defend yourself publicly. Getting rid of toxic people in your life is cleansing. Share your energy, love and time for those that are honestly good to be around. Better to have a few honest real friends then the pretend 500 you may have on Facebook!

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