WHAT MAKES A GOOD MOTHER

Whose definition really counts anyway. All mothers can be good moms in their minds.
Does a good mother take credit for all the good things their child does?
Does a good mother overlook any flaws of their child and tell the world how perfect their child can be?
To me a good mother has flaws and admits those flaws.
A good mother does her best most of the time. Some days it is just a hang in there day.
A good mother lets her child fail and help the child to learn a life's lesson.
There is a shoulder to cry on. Lots of hugs. But expectations for the child to give back to the world and not just take from it.
A good mother listens to the criticisms and yes there are lots of criticisms your child can have about you. Sometimes it is the child's way to discover their own challenges.
A good mother is just there when needed without judgment. But gives space for the child to grow.
A good mother does not lay guilt trips even if it would be the best solution.
Motherhood comes in all shapes and sizes. Raising boys and girls to face the world.
So what do you think makes a good Mother??
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