NANA SAYS DIFFERENCES IN CHILDREN CREATE CHALLENGES

Each child in a family can be unique. Same parents but different personalities. Having a sane household with trying to honour each child takes patience, skill and sometimes creativity. If one child enjoys quiet activities and the other likes to be on the move, it can create a conumdrum if only one parent is available! Trying to engage children in similar tasks but allowing the different interests can be done. A craft activity can have one child quietly working while the other can tear or cut paper giving some motor pleasure! Going for a walk, especially in the fall to find leaves, pinecones or even little sticks to use in the craft. A simple game of catch where some energy can be burned. Creating a safe environment like a basement play area or fenced in yard gives freedom and peace of mind to parents! As children are older organized sports and lessons assist with the differences. Sometimes if the active child is allowed to run, jump, bounce, play, he or she may just have that wonderful Saturday afternoon nap due to exhaustion! It is important to reflect on each parent's energy level since children may be similar to the over active parent! If you are a parent that nevers stops, the little acorn does not fall far from the tree!