MEMORIAL SERVICES-A CANADIAN WAY TO REMEMBER

Memorial services are a sombre way to remember a person, group or an event. The 70th anniversary of D-Day was a reminder of the sacrifices made to liberate Europe from the Nazi regime. Remembering our Mounties who died at a large funeral and memorial in New Brunswick this week gives that community a time to grieve collectively. Historically we remember important days that gave modern times its meaning. The signing of the Magna Carta is such an event that contributed to modern law. Memorials have testimonials, poems and quotes from the Bible as their mainstay. Ecumenical ones incorporate all religions and faith groups.  A time for reflection and sometimes soul searching.

Flowers add some colour and meaning. Music soothes the soul. Do you notice it does not matter have often you hear Amazing Grace it gives new meaning each time to the event you are attending? Some refreshments afterwards to give some time to talk and share stories. Sometimes as a Social Worker I have the opportunity to be part of hospital wide memorial projects. In my personal life giving the eulogy at my  mother's funeral was such a testimonial! Writing caring letters or cards to others experiencing a loss knowing they help the people involved! Remembering so we can move on with the person, event or group as part of our conscience! Knowing the event has made us a better person or at least appreciative of what we have in the present moment! Or it should make us so! What are you remembering today? Have you been part of a memorial service?