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Inspiration for this blog came from my cousin Roy. His daily reflections of the events in his life have been thoughtful and interesting. Family, friends, colleagues are welcome to read my blog.



Thursday, March 31, 2022

MARCH CAME IN LIKE A LION AND GOING OUT AS ONE

 March has been cooler than it should be.

Going out like a lion means that April may be chiller than normal.

Some yard work done but just a little.

I have been checking for spring flowers but only the snowdrops have poked their pretty little heads from the ground.

Leaving the brush on the gardens is good for the bees and little bugs. So just clipping and will rake later in the Spring.

Looking forward to being outside more.

How about you? Are you ready for the outdoors again? Or have you been outside all winter?

#endofmarch#springflowers#lookingforwardtowarmerweather#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro

Tuesday, March 29, 2022

POEMS BY BARBARA SET A MOOD IN TIME

 I used to write poems a lot in my youth and early 20s.

Then not so much.

So today I found three that I will share here.


Angels in the Snow

As I watched the snowflakes

          gently drift to the ground.

I thought of angels in the snow.

The inner joy of laying on Virgin snow

         Waving arms and legs creating those white angels.

I wonder if the real ones watch?

January 8, 1994


Be Kind

Go out of your way to be kind.

Give until it hurts the United Way slogan reads.

Why kind?

To make the world a better place.

To make my world a better place.

Does it give meaning in a manner that nothing else replaces.

Kindness, thoughtfulness-meaning, a way of life.

Purposeful, meaningful, just plain nice. Can my epitaph read- just plain nice.

What's wrong with being nice?

Why does it raise contempt in others? Why does it hurt to be nice?

Why nice guys finish last or do they?

Perhaps they just stand aside to let others pass because the need to be number one is not paramount in their lives.

It's nice to let others go first, it's nice to bring joy to others.

It brings joy to oneself.

So do we finish last, if the last smile is ours.

Kind, it's okay to be kind.

June 29, 2011


BIRTHDAY CAKE

WE HAVE A BIRTHDAY

A CAKE

BLOW OUT THE CANDLES

OH-MAKE A WISH

TIME TO CELEBRATE

DON'T WAIT

THE TICKING CLOCK

STOPS FOR NO ONE

JANUARY 27, 2021

#poemsbybarbara#wirtingpeotrytoexpresssomethoughts#angelsinthesnow#birthdaycake#beingkind#threepoesonaTuesdayafternoon#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro


Sunday, March 27, 2022

DOES ANYONE ELSE HATE SELF SERVE?

 A local Walmart now only has self serve.

I had to do my own checking at Shoppers this morning as the clerk was nowhere to be found.

I hate it.

Years ago we had to learn to pump our own gas.

The bank wants us to use the ATM for withdrawls and pay all our bills online through etransfer.

Maybe I just like to get some service from a real person.

Nice to greet someone and exchange minimal pleasantries.

The human touch.

I can not wait to get back to inperson meetings. The zoom thing has worn thin.

Have to register. Then wait to be admitted. And hope my computer does not kick out on me like it does so many times.

To go to a meeting when I feel like it and talk to people in person. Yeah!!

How about you? Do you like self serve? Do you like personal service?

Self service sucks!!

#selfservesucks#Ihateselfserve#doyoulikepersonalservice#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro

SPRING-TIME FOR TRANSITIONS

 Warm

Cold.

Snow flurries

Rain.

Wear your shoes.

Wear your boots.

Spring is that time to be very flexible.

As we transition from colder weather to iffy weather it can be hard to determine what to wear.

When to put the coats and boots away.

It is a good time to clean out closets. I did some sorting. 4 bags to be given to some charity.

Started yard work. Goal. Clip 100 plants or branches daily. Easy goal to obtain.

Oh those Spring transitions.


The spring plants manage to emerge even with snow on them.

How are you managing the spring transition?

#spring#transitionfromwinter#warmandcold#yardworkalittleatatime#wearingshoesthenboots#howtoadjusttothenewseason#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro

Tuesday, March 22, 2022

DID COVID TEACH EVERYONE THE SAME LESSONS-I THINK NOT

 Isolation in the beginning. Physical distancing was doable. Just walking away from people on sidewalks etc.

Masks. Not in your own home but out and about. But sometimes at family events.

Vaccines. What a blessing we could have vaccines.

We are in this together. Reaching out to others and them to me. Making room to make sure I had social activities. Phone calls, texting, letters, notes.

With the anti people about everything we certainly did not experience Covid the same way.

Those that lost a loved one to Covid had a different experience.

Those that lost a loved to another disease or illness had a different experience.

Only now can people have real funerals again. Real weddings. Real celebrations. So remember many people had such different experiences. 

For the majority of Canadians Public Health measures saved our lives or kept us from serious illness or death.

Yes folks death. 30,000 plus people have died from Covid in Canada and millions worldwide and counting.



Like Spring after a cold winter, looking for the positive signs.

So now the things that annoy me.

Masks were not a big thing to bear. So if you do not like a mask, then make sure to tell your surgeon he/she does not need to wear a mask during surgery or your dentist or anyone else providing a hygienic procedure. And I guess you are okay with them not washing their hands either.

One newscaster has made a big deal her 3 year old daughter did not have sand between her toes for the last several months because they did not travel. Duh. There are many beaches here in Ontario close to Toronto. One did not have to go south to find a beach. She could have bought a sandbox for her child.

The it is all about me and what I could not do. I I I I. Tired of the I I I people. For some people it was just about them. Poor me I I I could not do this or that.

If you were not seriously ill or died, then life is very good.

If you have an income or a successful business or no real hardships. Life is good.

Think about others who lost a business. Could not visit an elderly family member in Long Term Care. Or travel to visit someone in their family.

Privilege! Not a right!!

With the war in Ukraine, it is so difficult to tolerate some people these days. I am trying to be caring and compassionate but to the selfish and yes I call them selfish people it is very hard.

I think about people suffering real problems.

Coming out of the pandemic slowly is still the best option.

So I will mask in many situations. I will not mask around vaccinated or close family members who by the way are all vaccinated and boosted.

As a Canadian in a free democracy, I am very privileged. Yes privileged. I do not take it for granted. I feel blessed every day.

And the biggest annoyance that whole white supremacist Freedom Truck Convoy! I keep saying load up and take some supplies to Ukraine.

How about you? How are you feeling coming out of the mandates? Are you ready to let go?

#covidrestrictionslessening#wearingamaskisnotabigdeal#Iamokaywithrestrictions#coviddoesn'tcare#feelfreetowearamask#maskingisnotabigdeal#selfishpeopleannoyme#hardtobecompassionateaboutselfishpeople#realpeopleandrealproblems#thepopulationisdivided#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro


Monday, March 21, 2022

NO MORE MASKING-COVID DOESN'T CARE

 So I went to two places today.

Wore my mask.

The employees were masked.

Covid doesn't care about mask mandates lifted.

And neither do I.



I will continue to mask in many situations.

Stores, restaurants, with vulnerable people.

On a walk in fresh air it is different. I can physical distance.

I can be safe in my little independent bubble.

So how about you? What are your thoughts?

#maskmandatelifted#stillwearingamask#masksareharmless#protectingvulnerablepeople#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro

Sunday, March 20, 2022

FIRST DAY OF SPRING AND SOME SPRING CLEANING

 Since I really did not do much fall cleaning felt some spring cleaning was in order.

So been getting rid of some clothes not worn for a long time.

Clothes have so many memories attached to them. 

A top from a trip.

A dress from a special occasion.

A suit that Adolph wore.

But is is time to move forward with many areas of my life

So some clothes sorting and packing for a clothes drop is a good start.

How about you? Are you starting to spring clean?

#springcleaning#soritngclothes#goingthroughthingsInolongerwear#reflectivethoughtsbybarbara#barbaradimambro