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Inspiration for this blog came from my cousin Roy. His daily reflections of the events in his life have been thoughtful and interesting. Family, friends, colleagues are welcome to read my blog.



Sunday, June 7, 2015

DO WE REALLY LEARN FROM OUR WORST CRITIC?

Do you ever have a day or time where you are just enjoying life? Then someone or something in a critical way changes it. A comment! A look! Talking and no one is listening, so you stop or just walk away! Critics in our lives point out our flaws in large print. We do know we have flaws- but oh well! Not perfect. Sometimes letting things slide to make the moment more enjoyable, only to have it thrown in our face! Professionally and personally I have learned to hold my tongue! Listen to what is being said or implied! In a marriage, often having a partner criticized! But is a spouse responsible for the other one's behaviour? Well not really! It is easy to be a critic in life. Finding others' faults or disliking a manager's style or the way someone does something to be wrong is easy! Considering everyone has feelings so suggesting a change rather than a criticism with more understanding is more rewarding! But remember when any of us are pointing a finger at someone else, 3 fingers are pointing back at us!
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