IT'S MOM'S MONEY-SHE CAN SPEND IT

Some adult children worry about their aging parents spending their inheritance. As care needs change and there is money in the bank, it can be used on those needs. Even before a parent ages there could be some sibling rivalry about a parent giving a sum of money to one child in need. Well it is very clear. It is the parents' money to spend how they want. Of course as long there is no financial abuse occurring. The parents earned the money. It is theirs to spend. Of course, many people do want to leave something to children and grandchildren. In most situations it is very clear and straight forward. There is no abuse or rivalry. I have had some conversations lately with acquaintances where this was occurring. One child was upset the parent gave some assistance to another child. Well folks, it's Mom's money- she can spend it like she wants!

LIFE IS MORE THAN HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE

Our lives are composed of many pieces put together. Our history. Our relationships. Our interests. Our jobs. Sometimes taking a step back to reflect where we are and what we are doing helps to give a different perspective. Embracing our lives with the good, bad and the ugly let us live freely! Unfortunately many people, especially the 30 something or 40 something put so much value on money and the things to get! Comparing who has what! Wanting more is okay. But actually enjoying and taking advantage of the day in front of us allows a greater appreciation of life. Valuing others by the amount of money they possess has become an universal value. Perhaps really looking at the world through a lens of what value a person is making to it without a dollar sign. Ordinary people make extraordinary contributions to this world. Simple! Artistic! Caring ! Compassionate! So what are the pieces of your life that have value? Like I, do you ever tire of the money and possession talk?